Hi!
Ever heard anyonye say; “oh he’s such a nice guy!”
Let’s break that sentence down and ponder about the meaning of it. By nice they mean someone they can take advantage of, someone they can walk all over. It’s really horrible that you’re expected to be nice because do you wanna know who benefits from you being nice?
Answer: Everyone else but you. Sure, you feel good about yourself, but people are going to use it against you.
The greedy, whining, demanding bastards are the ones that get things done. They aren’t nice, actually many of them treat everyone else like crap, but they get all the good stuff. The nice guys grants them the right of being assholes out of fear of being one of the slimy guys.
All too often I hear people saying stuff like – “I dont get why she’s going out with him…he’s such a prick. He treats her like crap.”
Newsflash baby! People accept being treated like crap. They blame the evildoers behaviour on themselves. As soon as they are treated in a nice manner, they flee in panic, not knowing what to do with the awkward sensation they’re filled with. I don’t know if people see the kindness as a form of weakness, but it scares too many away.
I’m one of the guys you’d call nice. I know a lot of people that just take what they consider belongs to them, and it really works. I can not say if they are really well, I mean if they enjoy life more, but if you judge success in life by the things you get done, I’d recommend starting being a prick asap.
That’s all folks, cheerio!
